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Monday, 9 February 2015

A "yes" every day..

Have you just thought that when you once say yes or no it may be forever? When someone´s asking you to marry him and you say yes, it´s because you really mean it. When you say no...just the same. Will you have doubts, questions, fears? Definitely...

That´s why your "yes" must be said in your insides every day, every quarrel, every "am I sure?". And then be prepared, you know, love is alive and must be feeded day by day...


   Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. Love never fails.

   It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 
   But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 

Wednesday, 22 October 2014

12 THINGS THAT CAN DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE




Hey people!

Nice to talk to all of you again. I´ve just found a nice post about some harmful things that you might do in your relationship. Even though it´s about a marriage I think it´s useful for any couple.

1. You give more importance to the wedding than to the marriage. You´re planning the day, the dress, guests but you forget about the rest of your future life. Don´t forget about the premarital workshop, it´ll focus you on the good way.

2. You think a marriage is an agreement. Don´t forget that it´s not about 50/50, your share must be 100%.

3. You believe your partners duty is to make you happy. He/she won´t be able to help you or to cheer you up whenever you need it and it´s ok.

4. You are not transparent. When you hide things or just lie, your relationship is being poisoned by yourself.

5. You trust somebody more than your partner. You talk about the problems you have in your relationship with anybody but your partner, that can lead you even to unfaithfulness.

6. You´re waiting constantly for your partner to change. He/she makes mistakes and irritates you and you feel that you´re the only one who´s changing for better. Try to concentrate in his/her efforts.

7. You live for your children. All your love and cares go to them and your partner is just getting the small rests.

8. You think your partner´s not playing in your team. He/she´s not your adversary so stop counting who´s spending more, who´s cleaning more...

9. Don´t use harsh words. It´s another poison in your relationship.

10. You don´t respect your partner. You always doubt his/her opinion and think you know better.

11. You don´t know how to apologize and you don´t easily forget. You think you´re right and won´t apologize for anything? He/she thinks so as well. So what do you prefer? To be right or to have peace?

12. Bad advisors. People will for sure advise lots of thing about how to manage your relationship but why do you think they are better resolving your problems than you? Only you and your partner know what is all your feelings and relationship about so listen to any but just with half heart.

Do you recognize yourself? Next time you have any problem with your partner try to consider all these points...


Ideas from: http://www.credo-ua.org/2014/10/124506

Thursday, 14 February 2013

Je t´aime...

Unpredictable and sometimes undesirable... But it´s love. Comes without warning, without asking, without wanting... One day you wake up and you realize that your first thought of the new day was about that one and only person in your life. At first you might fight this feeling, convince yourself you don´t want it and you don´t need it. But once you know it´s there, you´ve almost lost the battle.

When you let go and accept the love you feel, that´s when your joy starts...and the pain, and the fear, and the troubles and the world just changes around you. Even in your eyes you see a new person looking at you with smiles and tears...

Because it´s love....

Because it´s deep in your heart....

And you don´t want to fight it any more....


Happy Valentine ´s Day!!!!!


Monday, 7 January 2013

Christmas is over...

My favourite season is already gone and every Christmas light is fading. This year I spent every "special" day in Alicante, far from my family and I feel like I couldn´t get the same cheerfulness as usual, nor the same happiness nor the same feelings. This year is different from any other because I´m a working woman now, not a crazy-always-travelling student as I used to be before... 

No Christmas tree at work, no lights on the streets, no presents.... Time to dream about spring, the magic smell of the flowers, the sun and the beach of Alicante!


Wednesday, 2 January 2013

Christmas 12-13

Hey people!

I´m back after just a week of holidays in Ukraine. "Just" when you´re used to spend more than 20 days there but when you think you won´t have them at all- it´s a "really big deal", believe me!

So, it was all hurry and hello-goodbye. I saw all my relatives in just 3 days and had more than enough time to quarrel with my dad, as usual :)

Now I´m here in Alicante, starting this new year, hoping for the best and eating sushi as often as I can, hahaha...


Wednesday, 7 November 2012

My brand new life!

Hello again! I just must inform you all of what´s going on in my life right now.... The last post I wrote was about Virginia, Antonio and myself, looking for a job. Spain is going through a rough situation right now. So many young people must go abroad and look for a job in a strange environment because they can´t find anything acceptable here. So sad to see so many friends leaving their families. Who better than I to know what  it feels like?

So, we spent many many days looking for a job here in Alicante. Sometimes I doubted and asked myself what I´d do if the time is going on and on and there´s still nothing for me. I can always return to my parents house but it would be rather a fiasco. Even though I had some "bad days" I remained confident and trusted God. He always knows what is ought to be...

And.... I finally got a job! A month ago.... I still think that it´s interesting and got a lot in common with my studies since it´s all about international environment. Kind of public relations of a hotel.

Virginia´s got a job as well, and Antonio too. Everybody´s saying God helped us a lot since it´s quite difficult to find anything nowadays. There´s no doubt on God´s mercy!

Two months in Alicante and I already have a new life, a new community, a new flat, a new job and a new boyfriend... but that´s a very different kind of story... I´ll leave it in a shadow for the next two years, sorry guys ;-)

Not a bad commence, is it?



Friday, 17 August 2012

In search of sunrise (job)

Great, now we're in Alicante and we have a flat (no more sleepless nights in Antonio's car). After a good relaxing day on a beautiful beach we've started our seach. From now it'll be our priority..
Let's see who'll be the first to find a job! (Pray for us!)